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Hi! I'm Åsa Strahlemo

I help people break free from uncertainty and step into clarity, confidence, and success—one step at a time using journaling as the tool.

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It is time to stop waiting and start leading

Hello,How much of your life have you spent waiting? Waiting for the right moment.Waiting to feel ready.Waiting for permission to fully step into the person you know you are meant to be. It is easy to convince yourself that waiting is the safest option. That more time will give you more clarity. That someday you will wake up feeling certain and confident, with no hesitation left. But that day does not come. Clarity does not happen through waiting. It happens through choosing. You do not need...

Hello, How much time have you spent trying to change things about yourself that were never really a problem? Maybe you have spent years trying to be more disciplined, more outgoing, or more structured—believing that if you could just fix those things, everything would finally fall into place. But what if the real work is not about fixing yourself? What if the real work is about accepting who you actually are, without hesitation, without apology, and without waiting for someone else to tell...

Hello,Be honest. How often do you dismiss your own progress?How often do you focus on what you have not done instead of what you have?How often do you assume others are more capable, more confident, or more ready than you? Most people do not see themselves clearly. They underestimate their own resilience, their own wisdom, and the strength they have already built. They assume their small steps do not count.They believe they need more proof before they can trust themselves.They forget...

Hello,Feeling stuck is frustrating. It makes you question yourself. It makes you doubt your decisions. It keeps you in the same loop of overthinking, waiting, and wishing something would change. But here is the truth. Most people are not actually stuck. They are hesitating.They are waiting for the perfect moment.They are hoping for certainty before they take a step forward. The problem is, clarity does not come from waiting. It comes from moving. You do not figure things out by sitting still...

Hello,How many times have you struggled with a decision, overthinking every possibility, afraid of making the wrong choice? Maybe you worried about what others would think.Maybe you doubted yourself, wondering if you were ready.Maybe you kept waiting for a sign that never came. Most people assume good decisions come from gathering as much information as possible, thinking through every scenario, and avoiding risk. But the truth is, the best decisions come from knowing yourself. Because when...

Hello,Most people spend their lives focused on what they should be doing. They chase goals, meet expectations, keep up with responsibilities. They make decisions based on what seems practical, logical, or acceptable. But here is a question that cuts through all of that. How do you want to be remembered? Not just for your achievements, but for who you were.Not just for what you did, but for how you made people feel.Not just for the life you built, but for the way you lived it. When you step...

Hello, Have you ever had a moment where something felt off, but you could not explain why? Maybe everything looked fine on the surface. You were doing what you were supposed to do, following the plan, keeping things together. But deep down, something was not right. That feeling is misalignment. It happens when the way you are living does not fully match who you are. You say yes when you really want to say no.You push yourself toward a goal that does not actually excite you.You stay in...

Hello,When people feel stuck, they tend to ask big questions. What am I supposed to do with my life?What is my purpose?How do I completely change everything? These questions feel important, but they are also paralyzing. They are so big that instead of finding an answer, you end up feeling even more lost. But here is something that changes everything. Instead of trying to figure out the whole picture, just ask yourself: “What is my next right step?” Not the whole plan. Not the end goal. Just...

Hello,It is easy to think of self-awareness as a personal journey. Something you do in your own mind, through journaling, reflection, or quiet moments of insight. Something that helps you make better choices and understand yourself more deeply. And that is true. But it is not the full picture. Because your level of self-awareness affects every single person you interact with. Think about how many misunderstandings happen because people do not know themselves well enough to express what they...

Hello, What would your life look like if you trusted yourself completely? If you did not second-guess every decision.If you did not wait for outside approval.If you did not hold yourself back, wondering if you are ready. What would change? Most people do not realize how much time they spend doubting themselves. They assume hesitation is just part of life, that self-trust is something only truly confident people have. But self-trust is not something you are born with. It is something you...