I help people break free from uncertainty and step into clarity, confidence, and success—one step at a time using journaling as the tool.
The truth about yourself that you need to accept
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Hello, How much time have you spent trying to change things about yourself that were never really a problem? Maybe you have spent years trying to be more disciplined, more outgoing, or more structured—believing that if you could just fix those things, everything would finally fall into place. But what if the real work is not about fixing yourself? What if the real work is about accepting who you actually are, without hesitation, without apology, and without waiting for someone else to tell you it is okay? Think about it. Maybe you have always been someone who moves at a slower pace, needing time to process before making decisions. That is not a flaw. It is how you create depth and meaning. Maybe you are deeply emotional, feeling things intensely when others seem unaffected. That does not make you weak. It makes you someone who experiences life fully. Maybe you struggle with routine and structure, finding yourself drawn to a more fluid way of doing things. That is not a failure. It is a different way of operating, one that works when you allow yourself to lean into it instead of fighting against it. We are taught to believe that self-growth means changing the things we do not like about ourselves. But sometimes, the real transformation comes when we stop fighting what is natural for us and start understanding how to work with ourselves instead of against ourselves. There is a difference between avoiding growth and forcing yourself to become someone you are not. 📝 Journaling Prompt: What is one truth about yourself that you have been resisting? What would happen if you fully accepted it instead of trying to change it? The more you accept yourself, the more space you create for real growth. With kind regards, Åsa Strahlemo
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Hi! I'm Åsa Strahlemo
I help people break free from uncertainty and step into clarity, confidence, and success—one step at a time using journaling as the tool.
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